How-to: Transition to a Toddler Bed

Thank you Pediatric Sleep Coach, Liz Harden from Little Dipper Sleep for collaborating on this blog!

Transitioning to a toddler bed is a big event in a little one's life. If we prepare kids well enough, it doesn't have to be a big deal (or pain) in parenthood. But here are some tips that we’ve come up with to support you.

  • If you can help it, don't go cold turkey! Try not to spring this new transition on your little one, instead, prepare them as best you can with the following strategies.

  • Wait until your child is 2.5-3 years old, at least, your child will have impulse control that will help them stay put. Even if your little one is 2.5-3 years old, if parents force it before the child is ready, they may find themselves with a big problem with night waking or bedtime/naptime resistance. The change, while seemingly so small to us, can cause attachment and insecurity issues in a child. Little ones crave firm (and loving) limits and the freedom provided by the toddler bed can be overwhelming.

  • Little ones crave firm (and loving) limits and the freedom provided by the toddler bed can be overwhelming. There is no longer a physical limit keeping them confidently contained. To help, keep it all really positive and encouraging, refrain from pressuring (don’t you want to be a big kid?)

  • Spend extra snuggle time and one-on-one time to fill their child’s security buckets, and involve their kiddo as much as possible in making the bed cozy and safe feeling.

  • Unless parents intend to co-sleep, it’s better to walk their child back to their own bed and bedroom without fanfare (keep it calm and collected), than let them into their own bed.

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